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Gender:Non-Binary Genderfluid Favorite Look:Femme Fatale
DISCLAIMER: On this page I've added some of the best out of tens of thousands of photos of me. I completely admire girls who put up representative photos of themselves but I'm far too vain to be able to do that!


September 2021 - Well we made the best of the last couple years but it's quite hard coming back from all that... Hope everyone is keeping well and still going :-) Managed to get to a few countries, finally joined the mile-high club (sorry, had to boast it's crazy) thanks to covid... WTF?! Well we had a flight to Thailand with Air China in late January 2020 and it seems most people cancelled their bookings due to worries about the situation. We had a xfer in Shanghai before flying on to Bangkok and the plane was completely empty with all the staff wearing masks and not having to look after anyone so... tada! Anyway, we were some of the last non-Chinese to visit Shanghai, we were only there for 24 hours and it was a very strange atmosphere. Our flight back was cancelled of course and it was a nightmare getting back but it meant we had an even longer holiday and yes it was the best holiday ever... Dressing up-wise I got to party at Eden on Koh Phangan, staying on Haad Yuan for a few days and bumping into people I had met partying many years previously so that was a little wild and something I've always wanted to do. Also dressed up in Bangkok but things were unfortunately very boring due to covid... Back in London, we had some great nights at Jade's venue at the Dome in Tufnell Park and then also managed to dress up and go out in Munich twice, Palermo and finally one of my life's dreams of dressing up and touring Venice. And we did it all on the tiniest budget you could possibly imagine. :-)
karina rialto

May 2020 - It's definitely time for an update of this description and the old photos, yes I'm still dressing up and I still take ages getting ready - I think the absolute minimum is 2 hours... Looking for friends who are a bit wild and put a lot of effort into their dressing, would be nice to hang out and go party xx
Oct 2018 - No longer single :-)


Jan 2018 - well I'm single again - I think it's time to start dating properly.... I never read my profile blah blah it's somewhat excessive if you take it all in one go so feel free to ignore it and meet me in person instead - I'm not too self-obsessed but it's all relative... ;-) Trying to regain my sense of humour after some heart-breaks with girls. I'm a party person and pretty fun to hang out with if you like getting wild and crazy ;-) but I'm looking for dates and getting to know interesting people, not random shags... Not up for bottom guys but I don't judge and can fall for anyone who's cool enough to interest me. Hope you can!!!! xxx

A little pilot for a TV show we did a few years back... haha
vanity's draggy disaster
April 2017 - hmm maybe it's time I updated some photos, the years are starting to catch up finally... I have been around forever but I'm trying to kick the old ciggies and excessive alcohol vices and I'm feeling a bit lacking in confidence and a touch lonely stuck in NorthWest London suburbia as a result... so I'm looking for friends of any gender identity and age for sociable times with AND without wildly excessive partying just for a change. The last couple years I did a few lipsync performances at the glory in dalston which was amazing fun and I'd love to collaborate on real-life situational and improvised comedy if anyone is interested. Trouble is things just seem to go in the same old circles - start off stimulating a bit of curiosity, then rapidly go off on a tangent rambling in increasingly monotonous tones before starting to lose confidence then giving up, stripping off a bit and flashing my arse just to get the audience back. Often works but there must be more to performing, surely. Partners in ex-crime needed desperately. In almost 20 years it seems the only things I've learned to do well are stick my arse out and walk. You can't pay for services with walking apparently. Monologues aren't my thing, clearly.
April 2016 - long time since an update, I'm occasionally on facebook/instagram/twitter these days... still doing the same old stuff, just not as often, say hi if you see me around, I don't bite x
May 2013 - I've had an amazing 3 weeks... After being a t-girl for a very long time I finally kicked myself up the ass hard enough to push myself to try to be the best t-girl that I can be so I've entered Dusty O's Tranny Academy... every Wednesday at Madame JoJo's in London starting this week until I get kicked out. Scary - there's some amazingly talented girls taking part :-)
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Dusty-Os-Tranny-Academy/154737931365383
I got kicked out, pissed off:


WARNING - Apologies if I'm direct and to the point on email but I spend far too much time on a laptop as it is, I much prefer getting to know people in person - alternatively I may be struggling to write slowly on a tablet... I'm very impatient!
SHAME THAT THIS NEEDS TO BE IN CAPITALS, but... I DON'T DO... WHAT IS REFERRED TO HERE AS "MEETS" I DON'T DO... RANDOM STRANGER COME ROUND TO MY HOUSE AND F*** ME, NO THANKYOU! I ESPECIALLY DON'T DO... RANDOM STRANGER COME ROUND TO MY HOUSE I'LL F*** YOU, NO THANKYOU! I DON'T DO... CHIT CHAT VIA EMAIL FOR AGES TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER. I DON'T DO... HEADLESS PEOPLE AND TO BE HONEST I'M NOT GOING TO SPEND TIME GETTING READY TO GO OUT ON A DATE WITH SOMEONE I'VE ONLY MET BY CHATTING ON HERE...

It's not that complicated - go out and hang out at a party or club, buy a girl a drink, have a chat, see if you get on, if you don't - no big deal! There are many, many t-girls in the world!
April 2013 - off to... Torremolinos! Can't quite believe I'm going there but after running around Ibiza daytime clubbing in a pink bikini last year, should be a piece of cake. Not my usual kind of holiday which has generally involved bumming around with a backpack somewhere like nicaragua, lao or india.
March 2013 - Still single! Tried to patch up the LTR for the last few months and made myself utterly miserable by doing so. No more. So I'm up for making friends and partying without being made to feel bad about who I am. :-) BTW I'm primarily into girls who might have a bit of a masculine side but are into makeup, hair and dressing up too and... date-rape-druggists look away now: I'm not too into guys unless I'm looking particularly feminine and I'm really, really wasted!
November 2012 - now single after being in an LTR with a girl for many years, unsure what the future holds but looking forward to hanging out with some more amazing people, i'm so lucky... :-)
October 2012 - just back from Ibiza, had the funniest, most wonderful time - thanks Rox you bitch! ;-)

- Don't read this crap below unless you've got a lot of free time and you're totally obsessed with me. It's really not worth it, I've just left it here because I have a terrible memory.
[20 Jan 2010 - Since the last update, what has Karina been up to? Well there have been a few wild all-night/day/weekend parties which have opened my eyes to some things I never thought possible. I really thought I'd seen it all but apparently not. I still love meeting new people of all kinds - the freakier the better - and I ALWAYS mean that as a huge compliment because I really admire those who present themselves in an unusual way. Club Rub has moved to the lightbox in Vauxhall starting this Saturday so I'm especially looking forward to dancing in amongst the flashing lights in my hellish outfit.]
[19 Oct 2009 - been going out a bit, not as much as I'd like. And I'm looking to make more friends in London to dress up with and go out partying. I'm not looking for sex, i'm in a long term relationship, just friends who make a bit of an effort, aren't too far away and like to spend a lot of time getting ready like me! x ]

[25 Feb 2009 - Cellar Door with Erin, Popcox, Neeya and the lovely crazy girls was lots of fun. I'm going away for a study/health break, back in 2 months time. Sorry it was all a bit rushed and sadly I'm going to miss some great parties. Well, have fun y'all! xx]
[13 Feb 2009 - ok, new profile. Hi, I'm re-birthing myself as Alexa but you can still call me Karina if you want. Or Alexa Karina. Whatever really, I've never been decisive or short of nicknames. :-P
I like meeting other t-girls and making friends with non-conventional people who go out regularly in London. I like having a drama about clothes and makeup. I love everyone. I'm in a relationship, don't contact me for sex, ta. Do contact me if you actually go out to interesting places. I'm 5'7", brown eyes, black or red hair, I currently drink and smoke too much and I love dancing. I also take a really, really long time getting ready to go out.
hugs, Alexa Karina Notti Totti xx
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This stuff below is probably boring. I can't even be bothered to re-read what I've written but I do remember that it lists some stuff I've been doing in the last couple years.
[18 Dec 2008 - back from holiday in thailand, it was wicked but I can't say where it was because it's one of the few places not overrun with tourists! Since getting back, been to FIRE and Trannyshack. Fire was rather good :-) going to kaos on Saturday - party season is swinging!]
[6 Oct 2008 - we've had a good year but I've still never done a proper photoshoot in 12 years so I've never learnt how to pose for photos - I've just hit lucky (but cringe at the crap ones). I've added a couple new ones anyway. Some fun nights out were... Sep: My local pub then Magic Theatre V. Sep: Zombies with Popcox dj'ing at Ghetto. Aug: Neeya's birthday at Bar Music Hall and Rocks Jun: Joshie's birthday in Hastings (scaring the locals on the beach the next day, too) Jun: Egg pre-Ibiza party (Poppy ripped this one!) Jun: Pride and Camden May: Pushca party May: Club Rub and Rocks
Shit. I don't get out nearly enough :-/ Open to ideas!! Here's a really old photo:
old photo, more draggy than usual
my phone crashed while i was in india and i lost all my phone numbers from the last year...
[25 feb 2008 - spent saturday night wearing a big polka dot dress and fluffy cardigan down at my local pub :-) - not as nerve-wracking as wearing a spurs scarf on holloway road on sunday but what a great weekend :-D ]
[22 feb 2008 - just back from india and very, very happy to be back home :-) if you want to spot me, i'll probably be the one wearing a bindi and cheap flowery dress. having a major purge of my favorites, just gonna reduce the list to people who live near-ish or i've met before or who i know are friends of friends or who i might have something in common with other than the obvious... some people seem to take these things a bit personally but if you think we would have fun hanging out, do drop me a message! x ]
[20 november 2007 - been to way out, the cross, tg rubber ball, etc. since last update but now i'm in india, getting myotherapy for RSI, so trying not to type at all. love u all and (if u know me only duh) drop me a chixmail if you feel like chatting, i'll give u my mobile number in india, it's 4p a minute to call from a landline by dialling planet numbers first. i'm back middle of feb. 2008. happy xmas! xx]
[24 august 2007 - current/future plans? lots of funky earrings on their way via ebay, now where the hell am i gonna wear them? planning to dress down and go out to dinner, dressing down has never been my thing but i'd like to try NOT standing out for a change - doubt i'll manage not to make some kind of spectacle of mysellf but should be fun. or not which is why i've never tried dressing down. MUST do horse meat disco one day, i'm so lazy. open to any interesting clubbing/partying/shopping suggestions though. yeesh that was a pointless ramble x]
[31 july 2007 - just back from a week hols in italia, a bit of a family reunion. so i can shave my legs again and go out... ;-) hopefully lucha britannia at notting hill arts club as pia is performing, yippee! btw, I'm ATTACHED and co-habiting and have been for a while, so if you're a guy or a t-girl looking for 'fun', don't be offended when i don't reply to messages or delete you from my admirers list. FRIENDS to dress up with and go out are in need, xxx BUT my typing is limited due to hand problems (see below for boring details).mwaaah! x)
[update - 29 june 2007 - only been out the once recently - club rub a couple of weeks ago. it was ok, not much to report really - the taxi was so late so we were a little too tipsy by the time we got there and i don't remember that much!]
[update - 15 may 2007 - I've always found that half the fun was in going shopping for outfits and accessories, slapping on buckets of makeup and having a laugh whilst getting ready...
Anyway, we did go to: BNO again - not as good as the first time, of course - nothing ever is. Still had a good time, but driving to Milton Keens, late on a Friday evening after work, and rushing to get ready is a hassle for someone like me who could quite happily spend five hours sat at a dressing table applying And reapplying makeup before going out. I think we got to the club just before midnight most people were a little tipsy, already. will try angelic, next time we go to pink punters..
DTPM at fabric - we went on the bank holiday weekendas it's a Sunday night club, of course. Actually, it was crap. With all my years of clubbing in London, I should have known better-because it is so famous, all the working stiffs like me (well okay, most of them aren't quite like me) only go on bank holidays, so the crowd was rubbish, and it was too packed with tourists and the like. That was a bit of a shame, because there were some other big clubs on that night looked really good. still managed to bump into a couple of old t-girl friends, which was nice and danced loads.
trannyshack at soho revue - at last made it to trannyshack. This used to be difficult for me because it's on a Wednesday night but as I'm currently project-less I don't have to get up on Thursday mornings. Or, in fact any mornings :-D !! that was fun, although I was pretty wasted :-
next night out? - maybe trannyshack again tomorrow and aphrodisiacs this Saturday... drop me a line if you're up for going out (or going shopping in bob-mode) in London sometime. x ]
[update - 20 feb 2007 - well Elise and I went to BNO and it was amazing! Even better than we expected and so busy! It was actually quite overwhelming that there were so many t-girls to talk to and not enough time! We'll be there in April - we're away in March. we also went to horseplay of the third and April Angell took some amazing photos. She is so cool and lovely!]
[update - 2 feb 2007 - if I didn't sound enough like a weirdo already... I've just got a cracked copy of a dictation program and headset, and after just one hour is already working really well. In fact, it is totally amazing and am over the moon. Although it is weird dictating to a computer when you've been used to writing long rambling posts on the Internet for the last 10 years. Especially given some of the topics that we write about on this website;-), wow I can even do;-) my posts are going to make me sound even nuttier than I did before!]
[update - 30 jan 2007 - wish i looked more like my photos! Please rate 'em if you stop by. diary for feb: 1st - Charles fox do 25% off kryolan today (if i remember right) - will go get some MORE brushes as i keep losing 'em 3rd - horseplay should be very interesting :) laundrettas, empress stah, ryan styles, etc. basically all the freeeks :) 9th - BNO 10th - Torture Garden? 17th - Club Rub? I can't do tartan!!! or angelic? or lost vagueness?
so if anyone is going to any of the above, pls feel free to mail me for a chat. xo.]
[update - 18 jan 2007 - trying to get over my addiction to tvchix. Just had a look at the photos of me I've linked to from this site and horrified to note just how old they are. They're really not representative of who I am these days or what I look like (unfortunately). So I've removed the link. I've just uploaded a couple of recent photos instead, including one of me and Elise.]
I've been out about 12 times over the last year but have no photos to show for it, oops.
[update - 17 jan 2007 - i keep posting mostly crap in the forums. well it's been mentally therapeutic for me being here but not physically 'cos i'm not supposed to type. well actually it's ok with 2 fingers just annoying when you're used to 100 wpm since the age of 10 and typing as fast as you think. now i have 5 times as many thoughts as i can write down so they come out a bit muddled and whatever i write sounds dry 'cos of my condition.
anyway, i came here to make some friends who were similar to me and lived nearby to go out partying with and i'm still waiting. there's a million and one things i want to say and talk about and it ain't gonna happen here so i guess my therapy must be over. It was about 5 years ago that I realised I couldn't look any more convincing without hormones so now i don't go out so often (a bit more than once a month) and am trying to age gracefully and with style :) anyway i hope to meet you out and about in london town one day. i'm most likely to be found at fiction or way out. thanks and goodnight. xoxoxox]
[update - 12 jan 2007 - my humour is improving though only slightly as my recent forum posts might illustrate... err... NOT LOOKING FOR SEX OR SHAGS! (thought it's a good idea to make the point again) and my rsi is getting a little better - yes even in the space of a couple days with some new therapies and a switch to two-finger typing!!!!!!!!!! so i'm a bit insanely happy right now! plan to visit TrannyShack this month and maybe BNO next month. i'm a complete perfectionist and managed to miss 2 nights out in the last week 'cos my makeup wasn't perfect...)
[update - 9 jan 2007 - been having (not too severe) RSI and humour bypass problems for last few months, I'm still not better so won't be writing very much. I am however going out quite a bit, so if you intend to go out in London and want to have a drink, do drop me a mail.)
hi, i'm me, i like to have some different looks.
i'm 5'7", brown eyes, size 10-12, mostly italian/chinese but also a bit west indian/indian/austrian. Born in London, speak a few languages.
i love getting dressed up to go out clubbing and partying in london. only go out at night, i'm vaguely passable in candlelight (1 candle, very big room and me at the other end of it):-D. For about 10 years i've been a nearly-but-not-quite-there on/off drag queen and am always looking for funkier outfits and crazysexycool friends who love to go out.
x karina
ps - i used to go out quite a lot in london, going to clubs like heaven, china white, the cross, egg, bars in soho, some straight places, way out, etc. with t-girl friends. i had a bit of a break and went travelling but have been going out again and it'd be nice to meet friends who like shopping, partying etc. etc.
pps - please don't hold my illiterate profile-writing against me :) would rather meet people face to face than spend endless evenings in front of a computer.
And if you made it this far, maybe you deserve to see some videos of me performing.

WARNING: Some viewers may find the content disturbing and offensive, hopefully you're over 15/18 and it'll help if you're already a bit disturbed by the shitness of life.